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In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Ever Merciful
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The
Keep-it-Simple Rule and Islam
Are God’s expectations from
humans easy to fulfil? If they are, should we not let others do what they are
doing and not get involved in unnecessarily disturbing them by declaring what
they are doing as un-Islamic? Also, should we not let non-Muslims remain what
they are? Isn’t it an unnatural expectation from them to convert to a completely
new religion? If we are expecting non-Muslims to convert, why shouldn’t Muslims
be expected to conform to the truth within their own faith? Is changing from one
religious view to another not difficult? If it is, how then is Islam easy to
follow? Why can’t we follow the Keep-It-Simple rule in Islam?
God Almighty wants us to
make things easy for us. This is what He has to say: “Allah desires ease for
you; He does not desire hardship for you.” (2:185) The Prophet (sws) strongly
urged his followers to “make things easy and don’t make them difficult. Give
them good news and don’t scare them away.”1
However, easiness in religion has to be done in the way the Almighty wants us
to do it. It should not be mistaken for casualness. Here are the outlines of the
easy way, as I understand, the Almighty wants us to follow:
i) One has always got to
remain open to truth. It is only in that way that one acquires true faith.
Laziness in matters of truth is an offence, though hopefully a minor one, but
unjustifiable stubbornness in the matter of truth is an inexcusable crime. By
the latter what I mean is that you refuse to take interest in the truth simply
because you are already attached to some other ideology and you don’t want a new
one to disturb you. In the process of comparing the contestants for truth, if I
am confused, the Almighty would accept it as a valid excuse, inshā Allah.
Ignoring the truth, however, can never be a part of the otherwise desirable
keep-It-simple formula.
ii) There is no Muslim vs
non-Muslim divide in the eyes of God. No one is at a disadvantage in this trial
of life. Muslims are expected to be open to truth quite as much as the
non-Muslims are. Those non-Muslims who know that the message of Islam is from
God and are still spurning it out of arrogance are criminal kāfir (the condemned
disbelievers) in the eyes of their Creator. Likewise is the case of Muslims who
are guilty of a similar crime in any aspect of the truth that comes from God. So
long as a person is confused about whether a certain message is from God or not,
he is not guilty. The ultimate decision on all such matters will be taken,
thankfully, by the All-Knowing God Himself.
iii) In matters of
practice, the rule is that you are expected to follow the truth as much as is
possible. God has promised that His expectations are simple. However, we need to
understand them in order to follow them. That strategy would ensure that things
are kept simple.
iv) In matters of new
findings on religion, science, or any other discipline, we again need to remain
open. Of course, not everyone is interested in everything, but if someone tells
me that what I am doing right now is not acceptable to my God, then I cannot
take it lightly. Even in non-religious matters, once we jump into a discussion,
we have to behave like truth-seeking believers and not like truth-spurning
kāfirs.
v) God Almighty has
promised that He is not going to make any soul accountable for anything more
than what his potential is. He has also promised that He will forgive people who
repent after realizing that what they were doing was wrong and that He will only
punish those who were insisting on a wrong, criminal attitude knowingly. What
better keep-it-simple approach could there be than this?
vi) One of the things I am
expected to do as a good believer is to get involved in the process of
correcting those who are closely linked with me. Likewise, I should allow others
to influence me positively whenever I am going wrong. Such an attitude of mutual
correction is a demonstration of the believers’ concern for the welfare of each
other. In no way does it demonstrate an unnecessary interference in the affairs
of others. In fact, not doing so would be indicative of a lack of interest in
the spiritual and moral welfare of the other person.
Author:
Dr Khalid Zaheer
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Reflections
* The Keep-it-Simple
Rule & Islam
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Read & Reflect
* The Rituals of
Hajj &
'Umrah
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Debate & Discuss * Discussion Forum:
Norms of Gender
Interaction
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allowed? Does Qur'an
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Cannot the
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Javed Ahmad Ghamidi
(Tr. by:Shehzad Saleem)
وَأَذِّن فِي النَّاسِ بِالْحَجِّ يَأْتُوكَ رِجَالًا وَعَلَى كُلِّ ضَامِرٍ
يَأْتِينَ مِن كُلِّ فَجٍّ عَمِيقٍ لِيَشْهَدُوا مَنَافِعَ لَهُمْ وَيَذْكُرُوا
اسْمَ اللَّهِ فِي أَيَّامٍ مَّعْلُومَاتٍ عَلَى مَا رَزَقَهُم مِّن بَهِيمَةِ
الْأَنْعَامِ فَكُلُوا مِنْهَا وَأَطْعِمُوا الْبَائِسَ الْفَقِيرَ ثُمَّ
لْيَقْضُوا تَفَثَهُمْ وَلْيُوفُوا نُذُورَهُمْ وَلْيَطَّوَّفُوا بِالْبَيْتِ
الْعَتِيقِ (٢٢: ٢٧-٢٩)
And proclaim the pilgrimage among
the people. They will come to you on foot and on the backs of lean camels from
distant mountainous ways so that they are able to reach places of benefit and on
a few appointed days invoke the name of God over their cattle which He has
bestowed them. [So when you slaughter them] eat of their flesh, and feed the
deprived beggar. Then let the pilgrims cleanse themselves of their dirt and
fulfill their vows, and circle the Ancient House. (22:27-29)
It is this proclamation which
was made centuries ago and it is in response to it that while uttering ‘لَبَّيْك
لَبَّيْك’ we travel to
Bayt Al-Haram, the Mosque built by Abraham (sws) in Makkah. It is this ancient
mosque which in the words of Imam Farahi was the first house of God in this
valley of Batha and about which it had been decided from the very beginning that
it would fend off all those who would deviate from Tawhid. Consequently, when
its inhabitants took to polytheism and left it, they took away some of its
stones in order to worship them. When Abraham (sws) after migrating from Babylon
while trying to find this ancient mosque reached this location, he could only
discover a shining stone from its previous construction. After he attempted to
sacrifice Ishmael (sws), the Almighty directed him to rebuild this place of
worship. So both father and son started digging the earth beneath this very
memorable stone. Once the ancient foundations became visible after some labour,
they raised them and implanted this stone in one part of the erected structure.
Ishmael (sws) was offered and devoted to this very house and thus regarded as
its attendant and it was proclaimed in the name of the Almighty that people
should come here to ceremonially devote themselves and revive their commitment
to the belief of Tawhid. In religious parlance, these rituals are called Hajj
and ‘Umrah. In the religion of Abraham (sws), these two rituals are the pinnacle
of worship. The Qur’an has declared that Islam is in fact a contract of sale and
purchase with the Almighty: We sell our lives and wealth for the Paradise the
Almighty has prepared for us: ‘إِنَّ
اللّهَ اشْتَرَى مِنَ
الْمُؤْمِنِينَ أَنفُسَهُمْ وَأَمْوَالَهُم بِأَنَّ لَهُمُ الجَنَّة’
(God has purchased from the faithful their lives and worldly goods, and in
return has promised them the Garden (9:111)). Consequently, right after it is
said: ‘فَاسْتَبْشِرُواْ
بِبَيْعِكُمُ الَّذِي بَايَعْتُم بِهِ
وَذَلِكَ هُوَ الْفَوْزُ الْعَظِيمُ’
(Rejoice then in the bargain you have made. That is the supreme triumph
(9:111)).
This is the highest
position a person can attain in his zeal for worshiping the Almighty: he is
ready to offer his life and wealth for Him when he is called for this. Hajj and
‘Umrah are symbolic manifestations of this offering. Both are an embodiment of
the same reality. The only difference is that the latter is compact and the
former more comprehensive in which the objective for which life and wealth are
offered becomes very evident.
The Almighty has informed
us that Satan has declared war on the scheme according to which He has created
Adam in this world since the very first day: ‘قَالَ
فَبِمَا
أَغْوَيْتَنِي لأَقْعُدَنَّ لَهُمْ صِرَاطَكَ الْمُسْتَقِيمَ ثُمَّ لآتِيَنَّهُم
مِّن بَيْنِ أَيْدِيهِمْ وَمِنْ خَلْفِهِمْ وَعَنْ أَيْمَانِهِمْ وَعَن
شَمَآئِلِهِمْ وَلاَ تَجِدُ
أَكْثَرَهُمْ شَاكِرِينَ’
(Because You have led me into sin’, he declared, ‘I will waylay Your servants
who are on Your straight path, then spring upon them from the front and from the
rear, from their right and from their left. Then You will find the greater part
of them ungrateful (7:16-17)).
The Qur’an (7:13-14) says
that this challenge from Iblis was accepted and His servants are now at war with
their foremost enemy till the Day of Judgement. This is the very test on which
this world has been made and our future depends on success or failure in it. It
is for this war that we dedicate our life and devote our wealth. It is for this
objective that many a time the prophets of God have called out: ‘يَااَيُّهَا
الَّذِيْن أمَنُوا كُوْنُوا أنْصَارَ
اللهَ’ (Believers!
Be the helpers of God (61:14)). This war against Iblis has been symbolized in
the ritual of Hajj. The manner in which this symbolization has been done is as
follows:
At the behest of Allah, His
servants take time out from the pleasures and involvements of life and leave
aside their goods and possessions, then proceed to the battlefield with the
words ‘لَبَّيْك
لَبَّيْك’ and just
like warriors encamp in a valley.
The next day they reach an
open field seeking the forgiveness of the Almighty, praying and beseeching Him
to grant them success in this war and listening to the sermon of the imam.
Giving due consideration to
the symbolism of waging war against Iblis they shorten and combine their prayers
and then after a short stay on the way back reach their camps.
Afterwards they fling
stones on Satan and symbolically offer themselves to God by sacrificing animals.
They then shave their heads and to offer the rounds of vows come to the real
place of worship and sacrifice.
Then they return to their
camps again and in the next two or three days fling stones on Satan in the
manner they had done earlier.
Viewed thus, the Ihram worn
in Hajj and ‘Umrah symbolizes the fact that a believer has withdrawn from the
amusement, attractions and involvements of this world and like a monk wearing
two unstitched robes, bare-headed and to some extent bare-footed too has
resolved to reach the presence of the Almighty.
The ‘Talbiyah’ is the
answer to the call made by Abraham (sws) while standing on a rock after he had
re-built the House of God1.
This call has now reached the nooks and corners of this world and the servants
of God while acknowledging His favours and affirming belief in His Tawhid
respond to it by saying: ‘اَللّهُمَّ
لَبَّيْك لَبَّيْك’.
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Discussion Forum: Norms of Gender Interaction
Bringing Friend Home?
Sabihah
I work during the day. Recently I went home
during lunch to pick something up I forgot.
A friend from work went with me. She walked into our flat with me.
Later on my mother-in-law complained and said this
friend of mine should have knocked even if she entered with me.
Is this really necessary?
atifrafi
I think to some extent your mother in law is
right. I see knocking at the door as a method to inform the house members that
someone else wants to enter and asking for the permission.
The point is why anyone needs this permission, what
I think, someone may be is in some position where he/she does not like to come
in front of anyone else. Knocking at the door provides him/her the time. May be
someone wants to cover her face/head.... ( thats just an example )
Now, as you are the family member. Rules for you
are obviously different. May be your husband (assuming you are female ) does not
wants to come in front of anyone in shorts or without shirt but he can come in
front of you in that state.
May be, your friend should have waited outside for
a while and once you are sure that everything is fine inside house, you can call
her inside then.
This is only my personal view and I am not
explaining any rule of Shariah, which I don't think I am in position to do so.
So, its not necessary for you to agree with all this.
I hope I have made my point clear.
Jhangeer Hanif (Moderator)
What I see is that your mother in law must have
felt uncomfortable to see the guest barge in unexpectedly. To find one of our
family members come home at a some unepected moment is but little problem.
However, to meet a guest when we have not been
given some time to prepare yourself causes us some irritation. Knocking at the
door is to actually allow the residents to prepare themselves for the
prospective guest.
Sabihah
Shukran for your comments.
I would have accepted it as such if it wasn't that
she doesn't request my husband's friends to do the same. It has happened several
times that I was wearing PJs and then he brings friends home without warning.
Jhangeer Hanif (Moderator)
You are right. We usually relate our actions and
decisions to what is already in practice.
However, I would suggest that sometimes we need to gauge others' actions too
whether they are morally and socially appropriate. If they are not, we
can advise them too to mend their ways. I mean instead of following suit, we
need to remain in the right side and ask others (our friends, husband, wives and
relatives) to correct their behaviour.
Ibrahimblicksjo
I think the best should have been if you informed
your mother-in-law that you had a friend with you. Since you brought a friend
(guest) then that is your responsibility. Because you have to try not to make
any of the parties uncomfortable, not your mother-in-law (because someone she
did not expect came) nor your friend.
YusufAbdulWahab
As-Salaamu Alaikum,
I think that if either you or your husbands friends
come home with either of you, out of respect for each other as well as others of
the family. your friends should wait outside for the approval to enter.
ibrahim
Quran
has demanded from us to take permission before entering to anyone's house (for
details see Surah Noor 24:27-29) But in the above case a friend, who was a lady,
was coming in with a person of that house, so she has her permission with
herself. However Quran has also told us that it is better to Say Salam to the
people of house where one is living while one enters from outside (24:61).
Actually, the Salam is a miled permission in itself as this way one informs the
people at home that one has come back now. Therefore the demand of that old lady
was not totally wrong.
However That husband must inform his wife & other
ladies at home before bringing in his friends. That is compulsory.
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Anger Issues
Anjham
I am new on this website and I am trying to
become a better Muslim and to teach my children the teaching of Muhammad (sws).
But firstly I need to make myself a better person. I am very ashamed to admit as
a women I am unable to control my anger. It's better than before as I am
learning how to control it but I need to do more. Is there anyone who can help
me? and also to be a better wife and to be more calmer because my husband gets
the worst of it and Mashallah I am blessed with a very calm man who tolerates me
but I need to keep calm under any circumstances. Please do not judge me and
don't give me any negative responses I need some form of good advice and
support. Any good feedback wil be welcomed. Thank you in advance.
saba2 (Moderator)
Salam, a very warm
welcome to the forums. We must all strive to become good Muslims and to get over
or correct our faults, I will let you know some duas soon but meanwhile why
don't you try a few of theses "People use a variety of both conscious and
unconscious processes to deal with their angry feelings. The three main
approaches are expressing, suppressing, and calming. Expressing your angry
feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner is the healthiest way to express
anger. To do this, you have to learn how to make clear what your needs are, and
how to get them met, without hurting others. Being assertive doesn't mean being
pushy or demanding; it means being respectful of yourself and others.
Anger can be
suppressed, and then converted or redirected. This happens when you hold in your
anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. The aim is to
inhibit or suppress your anger and convert it into more constructive behavior.
The danger in this type of response is that if it isn't allowed outward
expression, your anger can turn inward—on yourself. Anger turned inward may
cause hypertension, high blood pressure, or depression.
Unexpressed anger can
create other problems. It can lead to pathological expressions of anger, such as
passive-aggressive behavior (getting back at people indirectly, without telling
them why, rather than confronting them head-on) or a personality that seems
perpetually cynical and hostile. People who are constantly putting others down,
criticizing everything, and making cynical comments haven't learned how to
constructively express their anger. Not surprisingly, they aren't likely to have
many successful relationships.
Finally, you can calm
down inside. This means not just controlling your outward behavior, but also
controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm
yourself down, and let the feelings subside."
As Dr. Spielberger notes, "when none of these
three techniques work, that's when someone—or something—is going to get hurt."
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Cannot the Indebted Perform
Hajj?
Posted on: Monday,
November 01, 2010 - Hits: 304
Question:
I have heard
that we cannot perform Hajj if we have outstanding bills and loans. I live in
Karachi these days and formerly was in Sialkot. I learnt tennis there and
thereafter was posted to Karachi. I forgot to pay my tennis coach his fees and
now its really difficult for me to go there and pay him his money. The other
thing is that I did lots of childish things with friends and we also used to
pinch things from our school canteen. I feel very guilty and depressed when I
remember all these things. And what’s more, I still keep on sinning and
sometimes, as a result, do not feel like praying. Also, I have some student loan
in my name. However, my parents want to take me to Hajj. Now I want to know what
I should do. Should I refuse or should I clear my dues first?
Answer:
That persons in
debt cannot perform Hajj is not a correct opinion. If you have to pay
outstanding dues such as the ones you have referred to, and you are getting
the chance to go to Hajj, do not loose it. At the most, write the exact
amount and other details in a will document saying that if you (God forbid)
do not return then such and such an amount should be paid to these people.
We must also
remember that none of us can live without blemishes; the sins done after
maturity and the pranks done in childhood are a common feature of every
person’s life. Muslims are not expected to lead sinless lives; they are
required to repent sincerely and ask forgiveness from the Almighty whenever
they sin. Also, one must never loose a chance of earning reward and asking
for the Almighty’s mercy. Sins should not stop us from praying or fasting –
and certainly not from Hajj, for the opportunity might not come again. I
think that Satan’s last and most effective weapon to lead a person astray is
to make him feel frustrated and to make him loose hope from Allah’s mercy.
This is what one should not succumb to, and the moment this element of
frustration creeps in, one should realize that the Almighty is
Ever-forgiving. Even to the subscribers of polytheism, He gives the
following glad tidings:
Tell them [O
Prophet]: O my slaves who have wronged their souls [by polytheism], despair
not of the mercy of Allah who forgives all sins. Indeed, He is the
Forgiving, the Merciful. (39:53)
One must
remember that polytheism is the gravest sin a person can commit; if the
Almighty can forgive it as a result of true repentance, he can forgive all
others; the only thing is that we should keep repenting sincerely even if we
commit the same sin over and over again.
wassalam
Dr Shehzad Saleem
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